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Getting to know...Sarah
Hi, my name is Sarah Mir. I have been coming to South Ruislip Christian Fellowship in Deane Avenue since I was 10 years old.
I grew up in South Ruislip with my mum and one brother, and a cat called Tabby. My dad died when I was 9 years old. This was a very difficult time for us, I didn’t understand why something so sad could be allowed to happen. I grew to realise that sad things happen to people all the time and we have to find a way to accept this. For me knowing that God was bigger than all my sad feelings and the difficult days, that God could take it if I was mad at him and that He loved me more than anything really helped.
I went to Queensmead School and met my best friends, we still keep in touch and our children are great friends. I did OK at school, my favourite subject was English. I was useless at P.E and was always picked last for any team games! I once threw the shot put 3 feet on sports day. This was a great achievement!!
During this time at school I joined the youth group at church. We would meet on a Sunday night at a young couple’s house. The fun and games we had were great. To have someone away from the family that I could talk to, where I learnt more about my faith and spent time with other young Christians was really invaluable.
At 18, I decided to move away from home and I went to work in a children’s home in Broadstairs, Kent. I loved living by the sea and when I retire I plan to have a little place on the sea front again!
After a year of fending for myself I decided to come home and let mum look after me again. I began work for the civil service at the Land Registry in Harrow. On my first day I met a not very tall, fairly dark, reasonably handsome stranger and five years later, in 1993, we got married. Jimmy (the stranger) had been brought up in a Muslim home and this presented a number of challenges. We spent time together studying both the Bible and the Koran. Jimmy became a Christian in September 1992. He heard a preacher talk about the joy of the cross.
